Babies As Weapons

So Called Deadbeat Dads


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In addition to all that I have written here on Babies As Weapons and XenoSapien Forest, I have also been quite the blogger on MySpace.  The difference is that that blog is writings about everything in general (mostly political rants), and I really don't write about momma or my situation there.  I've written over 100 blogs since I have been on MySpace.  I'm very random as to when I'll write a blog.  Sometimes, it will be two-weeks before I write another blog, and sometimes I will write a few in only one day. 

Listed below are almost 100 Link Referral reviews from actual viewers, started off with a letter from a new female friend from England.  Click on the pic below to go to MySpace:

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Your Reviews...

Thanks to everyone and especially Link Referral for all of your comments and views.  My bottom line is, if she can have a baby, so can I:  "Babies As Weapons"...

 

XenoSapien

 

                                                            

 

 

 

Hi Xeno

 

I found your blog on linkreferral and read from the start to the finish. Firstly, I'd like to say congratulations on the birth of your baby girl, and while your blog doesn't say whether or not you have custody, I hope your court case goes well and that you are able to look after your daughter and be the great dad you already are.

Your story is sad and says a lot about the society we live in today, it is truly disgusting to think that women such as your child's mother are able to get away with their behaviour. In the UK, a large proportion of women have similar attitudes to those you seem to have encountered in the states, I know of women who are making so much money from the fathers of their children that they don't even work, and those who get pregnant and abort without thinking twice about it. I also know of women who use their children to get the child's dad to basically do whatever they want: what is there left for a man to do but comply with whatever a woman wants if she threatens to take away his child for ever?

Please can I reassure you that there are genuine women in the world who want to be good mothers, good wives, good friends and sisters, and are not motivated by greed, hatred, power, or enjoyment of violence. We may be a dying breed, but at least there are some of us left :)

I became mother to a beautiful baby girl in July last year, so your story really has touched me. I am still with her daddy, and while some days are hard work, especially as we don't have much money or our own house, or a car, but we are working together to make things work and overall we are very happy. I know your attitude towards fatherhood and your ethics and morals will see you through, and hopefully the courts will decide based on the overwhelming evidence that you will be a dedicated and loving father to your baby and give you full custody.

Anyway thank you for listening, and I hope that everything goes well with your court case and that your little girl grows up with one of the best fathers around :)

Feel free to email back if you like, we can all use a friend from time to time.

Good luck and best wishes

Liz

       

Our Reviews
"My heart goes out to you for the situation that you are in. I will pray for you, your daughter, and the supposed mother of the child (I say supposed because she's not much of a mother already if she's threatening to send you the fetus in the mail.) I am a woman, so I was a little uncomfortable reading your website at first, but I just wanted to say that all women are not like this any more than all men are deadbeat dads! God be with you and your daughter."

SCENTsational Candle
sccscentedcandles.com
"unique point of view and intresting site."

Tracey
walkinhungary.com
"Well thought out and put together web page. All loaded quickly and navigation was a breeze. Great job! A+"

Steve
hazelmotes.victoriamagic.com/
"This is very interesting and disturbing. As the mother of 2 children and only 2 healthy pregnancies, it's hard sometimes to see the pictures and realize just how real these aborted babies look like real people. Wow is all I can say."

Randi
paydaybuilder.net
"Very intersting perspective on things. While I don't necessarily agree with you on everything I do agree with some of your proposed changes. Best of luck in being a parent and raising your daughter to be a true woman."

vaughn
bdsdream.zliog.com/
"Site with a mission! I'm impressed."

karel
computer.linkpedia.eu
"Very creative design with the transparent container and a nice fiery header banner. Content is intriguing and unique."

damian
richwerx.com
"Very powerful stuff. It's too bad maternal love doesn't automatically kick in with pregnancy. "

Jennifer
wwwjerseygirl89.blogspot.com
"Nice site but taking so long to load photos."

Casty
firstchoicetoursandtravel.com
"Powerful blog ! Heartwrenching content that is well written and really strikes a nerve ! I know of so many women (and I am female) that use their children as weapons against the fathers and it is soo wrong !! Your cause is one I definately support, and have bookmarked your site for further review. Best of luck !!"

Diana
squidoo.com/teambuilderforum
"Although I think the purpose behind your site is valid, I think the design is poor. There is too much information on the home page to try and weed through to find out what the site is about and get all the necessary information to support and help your cause. And to understand if it's valid. I recommend trying a more professional layout that would convey seriousness of the subject. Lots of what is written is ranting. Stay with your cause... I hope everything works out and you get your message across clearly."

Petula
petulaw.blogspot.com
"It's ok........"

Shahab
shahabkhan.50webs.com/
"Wow What a site. It did take a moment to load, but that was because of the tons of content. Great graphics. Easy to follow. I will be back to finish reading."

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fulltiltpoker.com
"site loaded quickly and was easy to navigate, had good content... i will be a return visitor. your site would look good on my WALL OF FAME PAGE"

some guy
givesomeguyadollar.com
"I believe that fathers of unborn children have every right in the world to fight to save his baby."

Tina
freeandpayyou.proboards91.com
"I don't even know where to begin with this review. Your website was very professional and well done. The graphics you used went very well with the content. On a personal level my heart goes out to you! You have my support and my sympathy! I have already added your site to my favorites list on both link referral and my computer. I will be back and often. "

Thereza
freewebs.com/therezab
"Hi, i am speechless on your blog, as babies as weapons, yes indeed women got to bear the 9 months till it pop up to the world, thanks for all the thoughts on babies.I've learn much from there."

Peter
petertam.blogspot.com
"A great site and a very sad story which is all to common these days. Don't give up though, true love is out there! Well done."

Jenny
millionairemate.net
"Wow! This site totally freaked me out. Having faced similar issues myself, but in a different part of the world, I think you are providing an invaluable resource by letting the world know the other side of the story. Great work."

John
asiafocus.info
"What a cute daughter you have. She looks so gorgeous ;). And catchy background sound.."

baiti
marketingpond.com/?8442
"Great site looks fantastic I love the picture of the baby on the homepage. And it navighates very well. Good Luck."

Bridget
mypowermall.com/Biz/Home/6095
"This is pretty wild, some of the wildest I've seen on here. Check it out. Nice layout and very interesting. Really gives you something to think about. Oh yeah and the music is pretty nice too. "

JR
unclejimmysporn.com
"I ache for the writer on this site. It is a beautiful site. Images and content are well presented. It also shows why God intended for a man to make a commitment to a woman in marriage before planting his seed in her. That would save a lot of heartache for the man and the woman."

Muryal
nanas-cbmall.com
"Great site and a great and valid message."

Sherri
osteomed2.com
"This is an important issue that you are speaking up about. Way be an activist. You r honesty is apparent through and through. It was a little hard to find stuff, but your story should be the main part of the page. Good luck to your cause."

a
whatisgwbushdoing.blogspot.com/
"Hello Pat, Keep up the good fight. Bravo! Read it all. Tom"

Thomas
optin2succeed.com/goldenprosperity-e
"This was a great site considering the content of the text. I am pro-choice as adults we all need to take responsibility for our actions including conception if you. If you did not consent to the sex act then you need to make the choice for the sake of the fetus or for yourself worth. "

Patricia
mypowermall.com/Biz/Home/69414
"My review is not a qualified review of your site, since I have never been in this situaton. That said,I can symphasize (spelling ? ) with the situation. I feel alot of animossity here. Very Interesting."

Brian
loftyprofits.com/?user=bjfraz
"Babies as weapons. It's a shame, but it does happen."

Matt
credit4every1.net
"a very good website"

Imtiaz
funkitpk.110mb.com/Mobile/SMS/
"All I can say is keep up the good fight, as a mother of 2 I feel for you and I am disgusted be the way this woman has treated you and your baby. Don't give up, keep your head up high and god bless."

kerri anne
healthyhappynfit.com
"Your topic is good and I'm glad that you choose to say how you feel. To say that your stance is under represented in our culture in an understatement in the extreme. Powerful site."

Tracy
healthyweightlossforyourlife.com
"An interesting website with a powerful message: Men are people too and it's high time society begins to realize that it isn't only women who deserve compassion and understanding."

Mr.
itikins.com/splash.html
"very helpful site....i always moved by sites with babies on it. i am a mother of 3 baby boys and i always felt so much compassion for them...your site is good. keep it up!"

Edarrel
stores.ebay.com/An-Empire-Village-of-Huber-Auctions?refid=store
"The only problem with this site is that the text is not contrasting enough with the dark background and is almost unreadible on my small monitor"

Martha E.
gnomesandfairies.com
" Great looking site, easy to navigate and loads fast. Nice design and layout..."

mark
devonwillows.com
" Easy to follow site. Good layout. Loads fast. Looks good.."

Dmitriy
vikingrepairlosangeles.com
"Boy if that front page dont grab em. Nothing will. Real spooky though."

Bonnie
reverbnation.com/bonnieeagle
"Wow! I am proud of you for standing up, you men do have rights, and you should have a say so before a woman decides to abort her baby. I know! Trust me, and I am a woman. Your site is set up well. I am proud of you...even though it is graphic....it is worth it, if they need to view it. Wow! So sad."

Danielle
freedomathometeam.com/dcody
"nice site and good looking."

phuwadon
morefreegame.info
"I think this site is very relevant to people who have experienced it first hand."

Eric
perferredpokerblog.blogspot.com
"Wow a very bitter, angry polemic. At first I thought it a puton. Then as I read it I felt you meant every word. Poll is a neat idea."

Dave
daveappell.com
"Enjoyed my visit of your site, though the fetus in the mail is a bit graphic for me. The contents were a good read, and held my attention. Good design and navigation."

Donald
freewebs.com/jazzmansplace/
"great site, good layout, might want to work on providing a bit more information along everywhere in ur site. Other than that, keep up the good work. check my sites at http://www.cbooklist.com http://www.henrylaupro.com http://www.thefreemoneygiveaway.com http://www.justsobored.com and http://www.fotobox.us"

Henry
cbooklist.com
"Man.. I'm sorry that B is using your child as a weapon.. but just remember NOT all woman are like that! You can still find true love and happiness.. and fight for that little girl. She is beautiful!"

Jannice
beeznest.screamin-bee.com
"Wow, heavy stuff. I acknowledge the necessity for it. Blessings to you and your mission."

Carol
carolcsmith.myarbonne.com
"technically well done but the author misses the point by a country mile"

John
focusonyourlife.net
"This site really tugs at the heartstrings. I do hope things work out for you. Be positive and don't let anger divert you away from your purpose."

Michelle
www1.michellemac.co.uk
"Artistic design that I like. Your site layout is perfect for your site contents. Easy to brows, and people will enjoy to stay there. Keep it up."

Zulkafil
showcaseonweb.com
"great site, good layout, might want to work on providing a bit more information along everywhere in ur site. Other than that, keep up the good work. check my sites at http://www.cbooklist.com http://www.henrylaupro.com http://www.thefreemoneygiveaway.com http://www.justsobored.com and http://www.fotobox.us"

Vince
fotobox.us
"Other than the violent images, the site looked pretty good - layout was clear and navigation was easy. The auto-playing music was really annoying, but at least there is a button to stop it. Good luck with your site :)"

Stephanie
hostingwahms.com
"I didn't realize this was such a problem. I don't know of too many men who experience this. I thought it was somewhat isolated, but this is interesting. Thanks."

Alison
enlightentheway.com
"blimey,this site is a bit strong,certainly clears the vision of the blinkered.Good all round functioning website."

angus
.thelovefactor.co.uk
"great site i believe there is alot of dead beat out there in my case my ex wife is a dead beat mom "

timothy
quickinfo247.com/8389494/FREE
"unique website,great true articles,good luck in your quest,site loaded fast "

Tim
LoveAdultToys.com
"Being a mum I was really disgusted by what I first read, there maybe people out there that want to read this stuff but I wasn't sorry! "

Simone
freewebs.com/fastmoneyaustralia
"Good site, good that you ventilate your frustration and anger. You don't read stories like yours so much.I did get a bit scared of the use of language though. And as well the photo of fire and the drawing of the woman and the man on the floor. So, after reading the first page, I had to leave, because it became too much. "

Zoe
jou.jouwpagina.nl
"The Idea to include music or animation directly on Index page is not nice. Because when the browser doesn't have required plugin to play that sound or animation it will crash. Apparently this will reduce visitor convenient. "

Tegass
gatzet.info
"i have been to your site its different ,the concept,design,pagies,every thing looks good."

FARSHORI
bwspl.com
"It's very rare to see fire graphics done well. I love the semi-transparent background, also. Fantastic."

Michelle
zebrafruit.com
" Excellent site. Very well presented and your writing is clear. Site very well design and layout. Wish you more success.. "

senthil
edogadvice.com
"very interesting"

Paul Ndeleva
sunbreak-travels.com
"Site loaded a litle slow. I feel for you dude. I have many friends in situations a lot like yours. Keep cool and do your best."

Cameron
fat-ape.com
"Wow! Deep! I feel for the good men in pain. But all individuals have different views and many adults need to grow up (mentally) and stop being selfish!"

Kianesha
mybenefitsplus.com/40488475
"This site is a little rough. But I know this does happen to men. I'm just not sure this is a true story."

theresa
mypowermall.com/biz/home/9314
"A little hard to understand what you are trying to say. It could be that the topic sets off emotions, and your words are of with heated emotion. Maybe just a bit too much drama for the moment I'm in right now."

Lillie
takingcare.ws
"Well...very controversial, so excellent stuff. Very good content and I could not stop reading. Keep up the good work."

Justin
naturalselection.phpnet.us
"Great work ,Great site For some reason the music on the home page reminds me of kevin Becon which seem to work well for the subject at hand. I wish you luck."

Larry
larrysplaces.com
"very good site. really a nice effort."

Amit
mintmoney.in
"This is about one mans story of his own personal experiences with one woman. I think it has clouded his mentality toward women in general, so much so that he always LOOKS for the bad in any woman, instead of giving any of them a chance to show him that all are not alike. I do however agree with him when he speaks of women getting off light -for example- in court. The outcome would be worse if it was a man in the same situation. But then again, the judge is usually a man! So, what does that tell you about men?"

Sandara
MyFountainDesigns.com
"Highly original, great content, draws the reader in. Well done & good luck!"

clair
smithsdirectory.com/FreeOffers.htm
"I wasn't sure of your site at first, but got drawn in and read everything you wrote. I couldn't bring myself to watch the video thou. Being a woman who wanted children more than life itself, but unable to, I found unfortunately, horrible, disgusting truth in what you have penned. I can not believe how much women have changed over the past few decades, or maybe I can, I have my thoughts on that, however I applaud your tenacity and your insight to the men your seeking to reach and encourage to fight however and with whatever means they can..legally and not with force..of course..but then again is that even possible? I don't know. I am not for Hillary Clinton for sure..what a mistake that would be, but I digress. I found your site very moving in your love for your baby girl and I understand your anger. I wish for you all the very best and if you can, try to not let your anger overtake what I see as a very loving man, let that side of you shine through. Well done!!"

naomi
freewebs.com/hopei91
"Nice site..."

martin
globallyknown.com/
"This site has a great layout and color scheme. The content is well-organized and easy to read. The pages loaded quickly. "

Ninize
ninize.co.uk
"Very very very good design. Absolutely great design. One of the few sites I stay behind with, check things out a bit. GOod content, I can go around easily.. Absolutely great well done.. "

RUSSELL
walsall-wood-royal-exchange-fc-b.page.tl
"THis is an extremely powerful site. I took the time to read most of it. I also took the time to watch the video clip posted about getting fetus' in the mail. I found that very disturbing and couldn't finish watching the entire clip, but I have to tell you that even though it is unlike anything I've ever seen before, it really sent a message and gave me a completely different perspective of abortion and the brutality of it. I'm so sorry you had to go through such a terrible experience with the mother of your daughter. I know there are many women out there who are like this. It's extremely immature, cruel and damaging but the worst part is that innocent children are being hurt by having a parent like this. Lastly, I want to say Congratulations on your daughter. I hope you truly enjoy everyday you have with her."

Yvonne
myscraphouse.com
"An interesting topic. Well, I guess at last there is a place for men to go to tell their story. It's good to see that men care and unfortunate that they must suffer. A unique idea for a site. Good luck."

Sarah
rekthecomputer.com
"I found it very easy to find what I was looking for on this site. There are alot of links to great items. And It loaded quite quickly.There must be a hard worker that built this iste,because it is avery nice site. I enjoyed my tour and plan on returning. Thanks Judy :)"

Judy
wagglepop.com/stores/VintageClothing
"Interesting site with an interesting theme. I like the background graphic and the other graphics are nice too. There is some good content and the site is in the correct category for the content. Very good site. Best of luck"

Patricia
CoastalNorthCarolinaProperty.com
"Wow what a powerful site!! Loaded fine, links are working. I must say that the women that you mention in your page gives all us women a bad name. I just cant imagine anyone as vindictive enough to use a child as a way to "trap" or "keep" a man. Good luck to you sir, and all men who come upon your site who have been through the same sort of situation"

cathy
ezpeoplesearch.com
"Great looking site with quality information and i like the graphics.Loads easily and navigation is simple.Didnt realise so many guys had these probs."

andy
cerberi.blogspot.com/
"This site has a great purpose. It is very important for people to see this side of the situation. The pages load fast and are easy to navigate. Keep up the good work!"

Cristina
associatedcontent.com/cristina134
"Great idea! I will be back often!."

serg
ringtones-collection.com
"Great site and great point to get across! White text on flame background is a little hard on the eyes - but your message is important. Even as a woman I have fought to let people know I am not helpless - no woman truly is. And no woman has any more right to the control than anyone else! I fought a woman like your daughter's mother with my brother and his son. Congrats on the baby girl and I'm sure she'll be a much better person than her mother."

Mary
teammom.ws
"I will admit when I first clicked on your site, I was terrified. Coming in as a woman, I was trying to prepare myself for the worst, however what I found was an informative, extremely controversial, well put together website, that I rather enjoyed. I loved your graphics and how you implemented them into your "story". I agree with almost everything you said, and wish you the best in the future. Excellent site."

Nicole
freelancewritersexchange.com
"What a great website. Lots facts and stories to back it up. Very professional."

Trevor
home.earthlink.net/~wingnut61285/abortion/
"Wow! as a woman i am not sure what to say. Do i think that you encountered someone horrible? yes. do i think all women are this way? no. then i will also say this..... i believe that women do not do more for themselves because most men are readily available to do it for them. maybe if more men had your point of view things in the world would be a little different"

Jennifer
mommyclub.spreebb.com/
"Wow...can I cook or can't I? :) XenoSapien "

Xeno
xenosapien.com
"A very nice site easy to navigate crisp and clear in its direction and presentation,,I enjoyed the artwork and the images.. "

jeff
baptist-express.com
"Hey, good site and very relevant to today's realities. "

Harry
therealterrorstsarethefemnsts.blogspot.com/
"The design of this site is very attractive, the navigation is smooth and the content is in line with the catagory and and keywords are well chosen. I have to say the subject is very strong and I am almost always shocked at the capabilities of an individual to harm others emotionally and their willingness to do so. Not all women are controlling nor are all men dead beat dads. Their are good people everywhere as well as bad unfortunately.I wish you well. And I hope you being able to tell your story on your web site helps you to heal."

karen
freewebs.com/waay
"Great site! I am 100% behind what you are doing. Men basically have no rights in our society in situations like this. Keep up the good work."

Robert
hypnocoachingblog.com
"It sounds like you got suckered. You should file a paternity suit against that woman."

Frank J.
feeds.feedburner.com/thecellphonedisconnect
"good effort."

mike
webprogramming.tv
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